Women are stronger than men and men live in the illusion that they are sponsoring them.

Women tend to be stronger than men.  We men spend our whole lives in the misconception that we are the sponsors and we are the ones who take care of them.  But they forget that the nurturer is Allah and the woman who is always present like a lamp is not in compulsion, she is doing everything for us in selfless love.  He wants nothing but "love and two sweet words,

 I was definitely sitting in the corridor of the hospital.  But the focus of my thoughts was on the woman lying in I. C. U. I have been missing her for the last 4 days.  Every night my three-year-old son hugs me and sleeps in a frustrated voice and asks, "Where is Baba Ji Mama?"  Unable to answer, he answers, "Mama is in the hospital, isn't he?"  If she recovers, she will come home.  I don't know how long he talks to himself and falls asleep in my arms and I don't know when my eyes get infected.

 When she would get up in the morning and press her clothes and give them to me, she would fight with him even on a salute. Then she would spend the whole day celebrating on the phone.  Even random C-shirts don't get angry anymore.  Yesterday I went to him wearing the same shirt. He opened his eyes half-open and put on an oxygen mask.  I understood everything.  He picked up his file and read it in front of him so that his wet eyes would not be able to see.

 The stages of the ordeal will never be known.  Just yesterday I was sitting next to him, so he grabbed my hand and started asking me in a trembling voice, "How is Rafi?"  Mama doesn't say take it in your lap.  He doesn't even say that Mama doesn't go to school, my eye is not opening.  He doesn't even ask Mama to put me in class.  Stays quiet now and plays less.  As soon as the food left.  This morning, in a daze, he called out, "Mama," and the next moment he was silent, but I could say nothing but, "Yes, he's fine, and he's even more naughty in your absence today."

 But it is also a bitter truth that she is a mother as well as a wife and well understood everything that I could not say.  The eyes also have a silent language and this language can only be read and understood by a mother, a wife.

 We who are men are not bigoted and stubborn.  Let's make a small excuse to fight.  But in the matter of expressing love, they become entangled in the play of their own words and become silent. Those who are present day and night for us all the time, "What is the order, my lord?"  We evade its value by saying that it is the duty of the brother to do something unique or benevolent.  When we forget that we are not responsible for it.  They don't need us and women are stronger than men.  We men spend our whole lives in the misconception that we are the sponsors and we are the ones who take care of them.  But they forget that the nurturer is Allah and the woman who is always present like a lamp is not in compulsion, she is doing everything for us in selfless love.  He doesn't want anything but "love and two sweet words" but there are men.  As long as you don't put a mustache on your mustache and don't "give it a go" or speak loudly, there will be no fear and foam.  When they forget that the loudest and dirtiest sound is that of a donkey .. May Allah make things easy for everyone Amen ...